How people ruin their lives by getting married!!

I am not against the institution of marriage…. Infact I’ve been married for 2 years 5 months and few days and enjoying every moment of it. I guess I am still a novice to make such a bold claim but would like to share, what I think, can cause serious trouble in relationships..

I’ve seen lot of people put on weight after marriage. Why’s that, I wonder?? I asked my wife, She says, “That’s because you are well fed”.

So the top 3 reasons that will ruin you married life:

1. Assumptions: Drawing conclusions from what’s being said. If our assumptions are positive, no issues. But if not, it’s important to think , am I mind reading -> creating my own conclusion from what’s being said or am I presupposing -> arriving at a conclusion based on facts being said. Wrong conclusions create a snowball effect overtime leading to ‘ugly emotional cocktail’. so better to clarify and clear issues as they arise, with a pinch of salt and lemon juice.

2. Lack of Communication: No matter how big a fight you had or how bad things are…, it’s important to communicate. Keeping to oneself and not expressing your emotions will steadily lead to disaster. Sharing thoughts and feelings opens the line for reconciliation and helps to strengthen the bond.

3. No Chocolates and Roses: I guess we guys are lucky, cos if everything else fails, buying chocolates and roses, can help in forgiving the worst of crimes. If you don’t intend to buy these for your beloved in the near future, be prepared to face anger of volcanic proportions, leading to utter chaos and anarchy in your life.

To conclude, do whatever you wish to, but keep buying choclates and roses, otherwise be ready to face the most dreaded consequences